Welcome to Ask Trevor

Welcome to Ask Trevor
Ask Trevor is an online, non-time sensitive question and answer resource for young people with questions surrounding sexual orientation and gender identity. Browse the published letters or submit your own letter.

Before submitting a letter, please be aware that letters are experiencing a longer than normal wait period. If you are in immediate crisis, please call The Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386.
All calls are confidential and toll-free from anywhere in the United States, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Please don’t hesitate to reach out. You are not alone.

You can also access TrevorChat, our crisis chat service, at: http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/get-help-now available 7 days a week from 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Pacific / 3:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Eastern.

Please note: If you reside outside the United States and you are currently in crisis or suicidal, you will not be able to access The Trevor Lifeline or TrevorChat. If you are outside of the U.S. and need to talk to someone immediately, please see the following link to international hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html. If you are suicidal, please seek help at the nearest emergency room.

Your letters are very important to us and all letters will be reviewed and responded to in the near future.

Hope you are having a great summer!

asking for anti bullying speaker


I am running a GSA at my high school and would like speaker to speak to my school about anti bullying. I heard speakers last year in DC and have tried to contact them but have been unable to do so.


Hi Lynn,

Thank you for submitting your letter to us. It is wonderful that you are a part of your school’s GSA! I can understand the frustration you have been experiencing with your attempts to have a speaker attend an event. At The Trevor Project, we have numerous education programs for both youths and adults, as well as well as a resource kit that you can request for your GSA (http://www.thetrevorproject.org/section/resources). If you would like to find different local organizations that can go out to your campus to give a talk, you can search what is in your area on these two sites:



I hope that you are able to get someone on campus to speak to your group. If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask.

Take care,

Trevor Staff