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asking for anti bullying speaker


I am running a GSA at my high school and would like speaker to speak to my school about anti bullying. I heard speakers last year in DC and have tried to contact them but have been unable to do so.


Hi Lynn,

Thank you for submitting your letter to us. It is wonderful that you are a part of your school’s GSA! I can understand the frustration you have been experiencing with your attempts to have a speaker attend an event. At The Trevor Project, we have numerous education programs for both youths and adults, as well as well as a resource kit that you can request for your GSA (http://www.thetrevorproject.org/section/resources). If you would like to find different local organizations that can go out to your campus to give a talk, you can search what is in your area on these two sites:



I hope that you are able to get someone on campus to speak to your group. If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask.

Take care,

Trevor Staff