Welcome to Ask Trevor

Welcome to Ask Trevor
Ask Trevor is an online, non-time sensitive question and answer resource for young people with questions surrounding sexual orientation and gender identity. Browse the published letters or submit your own letter.

Before submitting a letter, please be aware that letters are experiencing a longer than normal wait period. If you are in immediate crisis, please call The Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386.
All calls are confidential and toll-free from anywhere in the United States, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Please don’t hesitate to reach out. You are not alone.

You can also access TrevorChat, our crisis chat service, at: http://www.thetrevorproject.org/pages/get-help-now available 7 days a week from 12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Pacific / 3:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Eastern.

Please note: If you reside outside the United States and you are currently in crisis or suicidal, you will not be able to access The Trevor Lifeline or TrevorChat. If you are outside of the U.S. and need to talk to someone immediately, please see the following link to international hotlines: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html. If you are suicidal, please seek help at the nearest emergency room.

Your letters are very important to us and all letters will be reviewed and responded to in the near future.

Hope you are having a great summer!

Thank you


I would like to formally and informally thank the Trevor Project, Team, Staff, and everyone in between for all the support and amazing answers to all my questions. You have really helped me through something that has been on my mind for years now so I can’t thank you enough. I come here and I can see that not only can I be myself but I know I’m not alone in this. I know I’ll have more questions and concerns but coming here just makes me safe. Again, thanks.




Dear Writer,

Thank you for your… thank you!

It’s so great to hear that you view Trevor’s different outreach tools as a place to feel open and supported. There are definitely a lot of us who have struggled in regards to our LGBTQ identities.

Please keep your questions and concerns coming – we always are listening and ready to hear you.

Thanks again for your appreciation, and we appreciate you for being true to yourself.

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